James T. BernardIt’s always exciting to move to a new house for the first time. Traveling to a new place can be scary. You’re moving away from everything you know; everything you’re used to.
However, moving to a new place can be a thrill for the very same reasons. You get the chance to remake yourself. Nobody knows you. Before you can get to that, there are a few things that you should know about fitting into a new place without going nuts or getting bored.
Let’s get right into it, shall we?
Lost the Old Habits
Did you have plans with friends to go to a certain bar on a Friday night? Maybe, you used to visit your favorite coffee shop before work each day?
These things are great habits but don’t go straight back into the same routine. You’re in an exciting new place! You need to get out there and experience all that the city has to offer.
When I move to a new place, I like to adopt the attitude of always say yes. Obviously, there’s a limit to this attitude. For example, if someone asks you to do illegal drugs with them, I would recommend saying no and avoiding that person for the rest of time, if not reporting them.
However, it is healthy to do things that we might consider out of our comfort zone, so long as they are harmless activities. So, the first time your new acquaintance or neighbor asks you to go out and do something interesting, say yes!
Take the Time to Walk Everywhere
I really mean everywhere! The best way to get to know a new city is by wandering aimlessly through the streets, seeing the sites, and meeting some people. You can’t expect yourself to get used to it immediately but exposing yourself to what’s out there definitely helps!
If you moved with someone, bring them along. However, don’t be afraid to go out there on your own. If you happen to prefer company, just make some friends as you go and you’ll be fine!
Make Some Plans to Look Forward to
One of the things that can cause moving to a new place to seem distressing is the mundane repetition. If all you have to do is go to work, go home, go to work, etc., then you have a problem. Make some plans, such as treating yourself to a meal outside on a certain day of the week.
Take the time to see the sights in your spare time. Even something as simple as popping into a coffee shop and sparking conversation with someone can help get you through the week, as well as make you some friends.
Don’t Forget About the Place You Left Behind!
For first time movers have likely never owned two places at once. If you have left a house or apartment behind you that is empty, do rent it out. Renting your apartment is made very easy through the cunning use of a property manager.
A property manager will be someone you trust who can take care of your property, tenants, and rent payments for you. This way you won’t have to worry about your apartment being trashed by the tenants as someone is watching over it for you. It’s a perfect means of earning some extra income.
